Team Hatfield

Mid year check in. Lots of photos

2010-07-09T14:05:00.000-07:00

Wow, hard to believe that I have not updated since January. Uggh! I think about it all the time, but never seem to make my way to the computer to get the job done. Such a shame, because I know I am missing so many opportunities to document all the fun that Team Hatfield has been having. And, there might be a friend or family member that would love to see an updated photo of T5.

It is also hard to believe that Thomas is 19 months old (in just a few short days).

Things he loves:

Yo Gabba Gabba, Outside (would live out there is we would let him), lawn mowie (mower), blocks, books, his version of golf, being chased, his tractor, brushing his teeth, his guitar, his thumb and belly button, anything that involves playing w us. Loves to help me bake

He loves his Momma all the time. Loves to to do what ever dad is doing: mowing, wearing a tie, putting on deodorant, flossing, .... the list goes on.

Loves to eat... especially fruit & veggies. Very good with spoon and fork. Learning to drink from "big" cup

He melts my heart when:

*he clasps his hands together for prayer time and gives an occasional amen.

* gives kisses and hugs. He is very affectionate.

* calls out "mamma or daddy". Gets so excited to see us, does a dance, squeal and runs into our arms.

*laughs (a lot)

* says "I sorry"

* "tank you" (thank you)

* really everything about him melts my heart

Every day he learns a new skill and new word. Sometime will help you count to 5. Working on colors, numbers and letters. We are so proud to be his parents.

What we have been up to:

Celebrating Mother's day, birthday's (my 35th), Father's day, dinner w precious friends, Uncle Scott getting married, going to the zoo & museum, swim lessons, baking cakes, yucky sick days, going to visit Gana in Kentucky, weddings, baby showers, loving our full and blessed life.

Enjoy the photos in no specific order.

Swim Lessons

Big Tex and the lovely Brooke Ashley. I am holding my sweet friend Grace.

I can see into the future w this photo. Lounging in his chair, rubbing his belly, and sucking his thumb. Hopefully the thumb sucking won't last long

Again, thumb sucking and belly rub

his face cracks me up.

His lawn mowie

Sweet Cass, my new sister. Love her. Rehearsal dinner
Wedding night. So much fun. Thank you Leslie for helping us look beautiful.

Zoo for Mothers Day. Oh, I love my handsome boys.

Mother's day

I wanna be like dad..... Melt my heart.

Helping mom bake.

I love you this much

Kentucky visit w/ Gana. Great trip, wonderful memories.

Children's Museum. He got more on him than in the bucket.

Sick day,painting Dad's Father's Day card. He loved every minute of the project. He was a mess, but it was so much fun.

Father's Day. Dad got a tie and the "jaw" ear piece for his phone. T5 loves his "tAtoe" = Mr. Potato Head.

Mom's 35 th bday. Headed to Flying Fish and then the pool/splash park

So Much Fun and So much more to come.

We love you all and pray that you savor every day that you have w/ your loved ones.

XXOOXX Team Hatfield

Since we last left you Part II

2010-01-18T19:14:00.000-08:00

Seriously, I am a terrible blogger. I wish I would make the time to update daily. There is so much I would love to document for myself, Tommy & Thomas. And, so much to share w/ my long distant family. I am going to do my very best in 2010 to at least blog once a week. Here is a quick recap of Oct-Dec. Later I will post a separate blog all about Thomas' 1st bday w/ lots of photos and Christmas ' 09. Till then here is a recap of the end of our 2009. And, wow what a year. A year of many first and precious, priceless memories. The Lord blessed us tremendously this year. We are healthy, happy, and have a home. It has been a challenging year for me in many ways, yet the growth in my heart and spirit due to the challenges have been the best reward. Thank Lord, for your love and grace.

Tommy's Triathlon. Thomas' first chance to cheer Dad on at the finish line. Dallas Oct 09

Thomas' first trip to the State Fair of Texas. Hello Big Tex and Corney Dog. Team Hatfield Tradition. And, by the smile on Hi face, I think Thomas approves.

Halloween. The sweetest lion you will ever see. He loved to roaaaar! So, dang cute!

Enjoying the Sunshine @Dallas Arboretum on Halloween Day w/ the Stueve's. I LOVE this photo, w. dad's protective hand in the background, not far away.

What a treat. Thanksgiving Day at the Cowboy game w/ family and friends.

Thomas celebrating his 1st bday. I have plenty to post about this special day and lots of photos to come.

Christmas 2009. It feels like this year was Thomas' first Christmas, because last year was such a blur to me. I seriously think I was still on narcotics last year at Christmas, because I don't remember much. Man, sleep deprivation will steal your memory. But, this year. Oh, so much fun!!!

Thomas got to experience a White Christmas. What a special treat!! He did not like the cold snow. Just wanted to look and say "ohhhhhhhhh:!! But, hated to be cold and wet when I sat him down for a photo.

A pro at unwrapping gifts. And HE loves this book. His "KKKK". (Hard k sound.)

Santa brought his first basketball goal. He LOVES it.

First photo on Christmas morning! "What is going on?"

Dad had knee surgery 1 week before Christmas. Still a wonderful, blessed family!

New Years Eve. Friends, Yummy dinner, and an 8:30pm count down.

Thomas and Ryan (his best bud) playing on NYE

What a happy baby boy. Such joy.

Hope your 2009 was full of precious memories too. Here is to a healthy and happy 2010.

Blessings,

Team Hatfield

Since we last left you...

2009-10-13T13:38:00.000-07:00

... it was April. Thomas was 4 months old. We were living w/ coco & hatty while our house was being prepped for move in.

We finally moved into our home and still "prepping", unpacking, painting, cleaning, need of a few remodeling, hanging pictures.. you get the idea. There is still a lot of work to be done. But, we love our home. We love our neighborhood. I have plenty of ideas for decorating, but that would require six lucky numbers to hit the lottery. A girl can dream. Point is we love our home that the Lord has blessed us with and we are excited about all the memories we will create here.

All in our little family is healthy and happy, what more can we ask for. Health alone is a blessing and we do not take it for granted.

Here is a recap of our action packed Spring and Summer 2009. Starting w/ most recent:

T5 9 month bday. About 21 lbs

Helping Mom w Laundry

A day at the park w/ Dad & Mom

Summer vacation Warercolor, Florida June 09. 6 months

Montana Vacation August 09 w/ Cousins, Aunts, & GG. 8 months

Swinging in Montana Aug. Look at that smile. Pure Joy
Montana Vacation. We truly had the best time. No phones, No tv, No internet. Just the beauty of Nature and time w/ our precious family of 3.
Lake McDonald @ Glacier National Park

Beautiful Baby Boy you are the sunshine in our lives. 8 months on vacation in Glacier National Park after a 1hr 30 min hike. All smiles as usual.

Hiking in Glacier. Dad loved every minute of hiking w/ you.
Team Hatfield
Aug 09. 8 months bday. Crying when I would not let you eat your bday sign. One of the few times you cry unless hungry or sleepy

Eating 8 month bday sign. Right before the meltdown
8 Months

Entertaining yourself as mom and dad finished dinner.

Mom & Dad in NYC for Dad's triathlon. T5 Stayed home for a fun weekend w/ Coco & Hatty. Yes mom cried the night before they left town. It was her first time away from her angel over night. But, she really enjoyed her vacation w/ Dad

7 months bday
Family pic @ 7 months. We are a good looking family. Is it Ok that I admit that? At least my boys are good looking, you can't deny that.

Swede, Tommy & T5 hard at work on the den lighting. Thanks guys... our den looks AWESOME now!!!
T5 trying a new treat from Gerber. He loves these puffs now. Devours them
First try at a sippy cup. 6 months

Las Vegas Baby. July 09
July 4th 09. Also, the first night T5 stood up in his crib. We lowered it as low as it will go the following morning

Family Vacation Watercolor, Florida 09. We managed to go on the hottest & most humid week of the year. But,the place is magical & I hope we go back in 2010. I LOVED it. T5's first trip to the beach
T5's first airplane ride from Dallas to Florida. Great story & A complete God thing. I'll share in a later post.

1st official Mother's Day 2009 and Thomas' baby dedication. What a sweet day will always treasure.

Blurry 6 months bday photo. Impossible to have T5 to sit still and not attempt to eat the sign.
My handsome Hatfield boys. The loves of my life. Thomas loves to suck his thumb and pinch his neck at the same time.. crazy, but so cute.

May 09. 5 months bday. Before we moved into our new home. Taken at Coco & Hatty's

Wow, Where does the time go. Seriously! life w/ baby, work, and a move certainly have kept us on our toes. I love every minute of it. Yes, there are some days I get flustered because I don't come close to accomplishing anything on my to do list, but I try to savor every precious moment w/ my family. I love Tommy more today than the day we exchanged vows. I love Thomas more than I ever thought possible. And I have fallen more in love w/ The God who created them both and has given me this the honor of being their wife and mother.

I promise to blog more often... for the few family and friends that care. Actually I know there are a few who do care because you want updates on our Love bug, T5. He just celebrated his 10 month bday and is still a very happy baby. Loves to smile for the camera, loves cars (and everything becomes a car he can push around and make vroom room noises), loves books, loves all food, loves to feed himself, and is showing interest in walking. What a precious joy.

Thank God for being a father that knows me better than I know myself. For rewarding me a beautiful, healthy family.

Photos and Quick Update

2009-04-28T20:23:00.000-07:00

All is well w/ Team Hatfield!

Thomas is healthy, happy and our biggest blessing! We love watching him change, grow, and discover something new everyday. This is a busy season of our lives as we are in the midst of a move and staying w/ Tommy's parents. Even though we are living out of boxes and suit cases right now, I am learning to slow down and love right where we are in life. I am loving this special time w/ Hatty & Coco. I already have so many treasured memories from 1 1/2 weeks of staying here.

Tommy & Swede are working hard on our "new" house. THANK YOU!!! Swede has been such a great friend and hard worker. So generous with his time and skills. And Tommy is working so hard to prepare this home for his family. I just love him more and more everyday as I see how he serves us and provides for us. Thank you, honey for stepping out of your comfort zone of sporty to handy. We are excited and anxious to get moved in and work on the house and make a home for our family. Our home is a blessing and we look forward to opening it and seeing how God will give us opportunities to serve him there.

Thomas is still sleeping through the night, although he did have a tough time adjusting the first few nights at Coco & Hatty's, but he is a trooper and doing great now. He had a great 4 month check up: 17lbs & a little over 25 inches. He started rice cereal this past weekend. The kid LOVES to eat. I will be sure to post photos & a video.

We had a wonderful Easter, celebrating our Risen Lord and Savior. I am looking forward to the upcoming years as Thomas will begin to understand the true meaning of this amazing celebration.

We pray that this finds you all healthy and happy. Please do not take one day for granted. Love on your family and friends. Don't get caught up on the small stuff that really does not matter in the end. Today I am so grateful for what Christ has done in my life and the sweet family and friends he has blessed me with. I am grateful for my health and the health of my family... I don't take it for granted. God is doing tremendous work in my life and I am more in love with Him today than ever before. I am hungry for His word and to embark on a path that he leads me. My prayer is that you too know God in an intimate way and know his love for you.

Here are a few photos of precious Thomas:

With Handsome Dad at 4 month check up.

Easter Sunday & 4 month Birthday 4-12-09

How can you not smile 24-7 when you have this bundle of joy in your life.

1st time he rolled over from back to tummy. I think it was in March

3 month birthday 3-12-09
Thomas,

We love you very much and are so thankful that God placed you in our lives. You bring more joy and excitement to us than we ever could have imagined. Love, Mom & Dad

Still Kickin'

2009-04-07T20:27:00.000-07:00

Hey Family & Friends,
Sorry it has been a month since a post and more importantly updated photos of sweet Thomas. Team Hatfield has been mighty busy. We are on the move..YEAHHHH!!!!!! We close on a house tomorrow and the movers are due next Friday. We have a lot of work to do in the next week. Packing, painting, repairs, bathroom remodel, make decisions for tile, granite, and then bargin shop for it all. I am so excited I can't stand it! Excited to finally have my stuff unpacked and decorate a home. Most of my things have been packed for the past 3 years since Tommy and I got engaged. I am ready to create a home for Team Hatfield!! A home with traditions, laughter, family & friends. A home to serve the Lord!!! God has blessed our family w/ health, home, and happiness...this makes us wealthy! We can ask for no more. I will post photos soon! Over the next year I am sure my blog will contain lots of before and after photos of projects as Tommy and I attempt to paint every room, remodel bathrooms, kitchen, and more. Stay tuned because this could be comical... we are NOT HANDY, BUT WE ARE THRIFTY!!!

Thomas is great! He is still sleeping through the night. Growing way too fast. Teething, lots of drool, and chewing on anything he can pull into his gummy mouth. He is a beauty and I love everyday ... let me be clear.... I love every moment w/him.

I love Spring. Easter is my most favorite Holiday/Celebration. The resurrection of my Lord and Savior. The Cross! Forgiveness of my sins. For God loved me this much! Grace, Compassion, Sacrifice. He has risen, He lives!! I celebrate!!!

It is late and this momma is TIRED! I promise to update w/ photos soon!
P.S. Please continue to pray for my sister and her newborn son, Ian. They are healthy, but I know have a tough road ahead of them as K adjust to parenthood and all the responsibilities.

A Few Photos

2009-03-01T16:06:00.000-08:00

Celebrating Tommy's Birthday. Happy Bday HH!!! I know it was extra special this year to celebrate with the best gift God could give us, a healthy baby. I love you more every day. Thank you for being a man of God, a great husband and father, & my best friend. I am excited to see how God blesses your life this year and uses you to make an impact for eternity. I love our new and improve Team Hatfield.

Our first day at church as a family of 3. Thomas did great and loves the swing in the nursery.

My handsome boys. I am one lucky lady!!!

Thomas loves his thumb & so do we! Oh, he is so dang cute!!!!

The Hatfields. Hatty(III), Gana, Uncle Kenny, Thomas(V), and Tommy(IV) .....What a special photo.

Sleeping Baby=Happy Baby & Parents

2009-03-01T15:34:00.000-08:00

THANK YOU, BLOGGER FRIENDS!!!!!!!

For all the sleeping advice, it worked!!! Praise the Lord!!!!!!

Thomas has been sleeping through the night for the last 2 weeks. Tommy and I feel like new people, well at least we recognize the old us.

Each and every day w Thomas gets sweeter and sweeter. Slowly we are discovering a schedule, at least the best you can w/ a newborn. I now understand Thomas' language, which eases some of my fear. Before i was so fearful that I would not know what he needed when he cried. Now i understand most of his language and body language.

Thomas is such a good baby & happy. I love coming in his room to get him in the mornings because he greets be with a super big, gummy smile... oh, it melts my heart!!!

Fog and Sunshine

2009-02-05T09:30:00.000-08:00

A few photos of Thomas and Team Hatfield. All from day 9...yes, he is now 8 weeks old and I will post updated photos tonight when I am on the upstairs computer..these are all I have on my laptop for now.

The last 8 weeks are foggy, but all I can remember is sunshine. The prettiest sunshine I have ever seen in my life. This sunshine warms my heart and soul like no other. Even on the cloudiest, most gloomy of days, this sunshine will brighten my day. My sunshine is Thomas E. Hatfield, V. Oh, what joy this precious child has brought to me. The days are long and the nights are longer, but some how God provides me the strength and just enough energy to enjoy the love of this sunshine. The last 8 weeks have gone by so fast! Faster than I could ever have imagined and it breaks my heart. Our little guy is already so big and changing every day. I try to savor every moment and burn the image of his chunky cheeks, double chin, long fingers, & chubby toes into my memory.

Now, I would change something if I could...getting him on a schedule that includes sleeping through the night. Thomas is a great sleeper and even takes good naps. Problem is that he has night ans day totally backwards. He would sleep ALL day if I let him and is bright eyed about 10pm/11pm. Uhhhh, problem....mom is headed back to work in a few weeks, so we need to work on a schedule and good sleep at night. ANY SUGGESTIONS ARE WELCOME!!! Plus, Tommy and I need some husband-wife time. I am missing my husband. It is tough to spend quality time w/ my #1 guy when I am exhausted..I mean REALLY EXHAUSTED!

Please keep us in your prayers.

Our townhouse in under contract to close on March 2 (yes, in just a few weeks) and we are still unsure of where we are going. I am not interested in movin twice (rental until we find the right home at the right time), but I want to follow God's will and go where ever he leads us. So we are praying for direction, peace, and clarity.
Praying to be a Proverbs 31 Woman. I pray for God to mold me in to a woman who loves him even more than I do now, follows him and models him in my home, marriage, motherhood, work, family, and friendship. Please pray that I will become selfless and expereince all God has planned for me to be.
Pray for our sweet son to sleep through the night, play during the days, remain healthy and happy. Please pray for his future and for him to fall in love with Christ.
Pray for our marriage, it is a GREAT marriage! But, I know that we are tired and embarking on a new journey. Pray that we keep Christ in the center and never allow satan to take advantage of our tired bodies and spirits. Pray that we become stronger as a team as we raise this child and become a family of three.

AND DON'T FORGET TO GIVE ME ANY TIPS OR SCHEDULE SUGGESTIONS TO GET THOMAS ON A SCHEDULE THAT INCLUDES SLEEPING LONGER AT NIGHT.

Love & Laughter,

Rhonda

Thank You Coco

2009-01-08T19:50:00.000-08:00

Thank you for being such a special Coco and spending the first few nights in my room w/ me when I came home. You made life so much easier for mom and dad! Plus, we got to spend quality time together at 2 in the morning...just the two of us. Thank you for rocking me, singing to me, praying for me, changing me, and looking after me. Mommy tells me all the time how blessed we are to have such a special Coco and Hatty. I know that I am going to have lots of fun w/ my cousins when we all get together to play at Coco's. There is just something magical about Coco's house for us grandkids....and it is the one of a kind love of Coco.

Little T Meeting Family & Friends @ Hospital

2008-12-31T17:36:00.000-08:00

Just a few of the sweet faces that came to the hospital to love on Thomas... we didn't get photos of everyone, but we love you all! Thank you for the visits,gifts, cards, & prayers. I promise I am still working on my thank you cards.

"auntie" Kelley, one of the first to come by the house to visit and love on me. She has twin boys Matthew and Jackson. ..my special buddies who pray for me and send me handmade cards in the mail. Kel gives mom all kinds of great parenting advice, she is a pro!

Uncle Scott and Dad. Scotty will teach me how to hunt, love for books, video games, and all about being a good man.

Our Sweet "Honey" Singing and Rocking Thomas to sleep. We love Honey, she is extra special to us. Alison & Robert stop by for a visit too, but we forgot to get a photo. The Stueve & Davenport families are SPECIAL to us, they love us like family!

Below Photo: Our Fun and Precious friends TK & Lauren loving on Thomas. TK, Thomas can't wait for you to teach him your dance moves & Lauren, Thomas and I need a baby yoga instructor....Mom needs to get back in shape. We love your hearts, smiles, and friendships. Now bring a Baby S into this world soon so we can plan some rockin' "family friendly" vacations.

"Uncle"Rob. We can't wait to meet the rest of the Rickman family. We know the Hatfields and Rickmans will have some fun play dates in the future..Maybe pool parties, hanging w/ Crawford, Haley, & Margaret, Cheering our Dad's on at the Triathlon transitions and finish line.

Wells Family. Thomas, Mom is not so sure you can ever ride in a car w/ Corey..he likes to drive tooo fast : ) We love the Wells Family! We are looking forward to sweet "auntie" Melinda coming to love on us soon.

Thomas, This is mommy's wonderful Great Aunt Bev and Uncle Charles. They have a special place in my heart. I know you will love your GREAT GREAT Aunt & Uncle as much as I do. Watch out for that Uncle Charles... he loves to tease and have a good 'ol time.

Another Precious "auntie"... Stacy! Her laugh & smile are perfect and you will love being around her as much as mom does. I know you'll feel like a party when she is here loving on you.

Larry, Peggy & Christi. Larry will teach me to dress cool (him and TK) and the trade of acting for my first school play. Peggy will teach me how to be smart, study hard, and have fun...she is super smart & beautiful!!! I can't wait for them to come see me again.

MY Hatty! I am so proud to have the same name as this wonderful, God fearing man. I hope to grow up and be a great man like My Hatty & Dad! I am counting down the days till I am big enough to talk sports w/ Dad and Hatty & of course for them to teach me to throw a football and shoot hoops!

"auntie" Liz... What a special friend to our family. So generous, so loving, sweet spirit. Thomas LOVES Liz. I think he already has a little crush on his hip, talented, and well traveled "auntie".

Uncle Todd and Chloe Checking in on Baby Thomas.

Meeting Aunt Joy and Cousin Chloe... So excited to FINALLY meet her baby cousin!

Aunt Joy & Cousin Colton.. Just as excited as Chloe to meet his baby cousin. Can't wait to teach him how to build, explore, and climb!

Proud Dad introducing Thomas to Aunt Joy. Really, both Dad and Aunt Joy's face say it all!!

I can't wait to be big enough for sleep overs w/ my cousins and get lots of hugs and kisses from my Aunt Joy & have a fun time w/ Uncle Todd.

Beautiful "Aunt" Leslie, Thank you for all the Sonic lunches, nightly walks, shopping trips, and prayers. I already LOVE my Aunt Leslie soooo much! I love that you come by to see me almost daily and you help mom so much... you really are a beautiful "aunt" inside and out!

My VERY SPECIAL "Aunt" Christi! Thank you for being a special "sister" to my mommy and loving me like only a special aunt can. One of the first few people to hold me on day one!! Can't wait to discover all the fun things you will teach me growing up. Mom says you love me sooo much and will make me laugh a lot.

Introducing Thomas E. Hatfield V. Happy Birthday!

2008-12-22T15:14:00.000-08:00

Meeting Coco & Hatty for the first time!! Can't wait to call everyone!!

IT'S A BOY!!!!! PURE EXCITEMENT!! Coco, Hatty and Aunt Christi receiving the great news from Dad!

MOM & THOMAS FOR THE FIRST TIME IN THE BIG WORLD!!! OH, HOW I ALREADY LOVE YOU!!!

PROUD Dad introducing his big baby boy to Mom!!!

A sweet sign of love before we ever met your sweet face.
What a day! A perfect day!!! We love you Thomas E. Hatfield V.

OH BABY....

2008-12-19T15:24:00.000-08:00

Oh Boy, Oh Boy...

Yes, our precious baby BOY arrived Friday, December 12, @ 8:16 am.

Thomas Edmund Hatfield V.

Healthy!!!

9 lbs 6oz

20 1/4 inches

As planned, we checked into the hospital Friday at 5:45am, epidural, attempt for external turn, frank breech baby was stubborn and not willing to turn (already settled low), get ready for c section, 8:16am our lives were forever changed by God's biggest blessing yet!

THANK YOU for all your prayers on Friday, we felt them.
More details and photos to come.... i promise!!!

39 Week Bump & Check up

2008-12-09T15:39:00.000-08:00

38.5 week photo

On Monday we went to see Dr. Harris for my 39 week check up. I was really anxious for this appointment because during the last week I thought I had experienced Braxton Hicks and perhaps we were finally making some progress toward Labor & Delivery. Nope! Still 1.5 cm dilated. 90% effaced.I have gained about 33-35lbs total..wow! My blood pressure is stil great and Baby H's heartbeat was 136, All measurements are good. Dr. H did ask me about my movement counts and I have felt that some days they are slow and then there are days w/ a lot of movement. Dr. H decided to do a sonogram for a 5 point assement..check movement, fluid, and at this point I can't remember what else.

We made a 40 week check up appointmet for next Monday just in case baby still is not here. Then the sono tech was ready for us... Immediatly, the tech told us that the baby is breech. What?? not what we were expecting! Some time in the last week the baby decided to turn... to our surprise and the doctor's. So this changes everything.

Cancel Monday's appointment and lets discuss options. After much discussion, prayer and second opinion we will be headed to the hospital on Friday morning about 545am, check in, have an epidural, Dr. H will meet us at 7am and try to externally move the baby. We should know with in 5 minutes if Baby H is going to turn or be stubborn and hangout in breech. If Baby H turns (which is what we are praying for) I will be induced and we wait for labor to begin...if Baby H decides to not turn then I will be prepped for a c section. So, PLEASE PRAY for Baby H to turn!!! We have complete peace in the labor and delivery and confidence in Dr. H and the medical staff.
For the next few days I am at home resting and praying for the baby to turn and to not go into labor while baby is still breech.
The sonogram did reassure us of a healthy baby weighing approx 8.5lbs, big cheeks, and looks like baby might have a lot of hair.
Friday we will be celebrating a new birthday and finally meeting our sweet Baby H.
See ya soon sweet Baby H, please listen to mommy and daddy and turn!

39 week photo

38 Week Check Up

2008-12-01T17:14:00.000-08:00

Great appointment today!
Blood pressure is still great. Minimum swelling in legs and ankles. Gained 3 lbs, but probably due to just eating lunch & all the Thanksgiving food from last week. Baby H's heart rate 136. Measurements right on track. -1 into the pelvic area, 1.5 cm dilated. So far it still looks like Dec 12ish for due date. Dr. Harris estimates that Baby H's weight is 7+lbs and that I will have an 8lb baby. Wowzers, I was not expecting that!! Tommy was all smiles knowing there is a healthy baby growing inside of me and we can expect a little chubby cutie pie in the next 2 weeks.

Thank you, HH for going to every appointment with me because you want to be there and experience all the joys of hearing about our baby's progress & sweet heartbeat.

Baby Bump.. is growing

2008-11-30T21:11:00.001-08:00

Weeks 33-38. I don't think I took a photo each week of the baby bump : ( I know I will be sad about that later. At least we are getting just about each week. It is amazing to look back and see the growth of my tummy and this baby. What started as a size 4 and poppy seed is now... well, lets just say not much is fitting over my tummy these days (certainly not a size 4) and the baby is no longer the size of a poppy seed : )

About Week 33/34

About Week 36 w/ Deanna at her baby shower

Week 37 photo above

Week 38 photo below

At my 36 week check up 2 weeks ago I was -2 into the pelvic area, 0 dilated, & measuring right on track.

At my 37 week check up last Monday I was -1 into the pelvic area and 1 cm dilated & still measuring right on track.

Curious to see what tomorrow's 38 week check up brings. Dr. Harris said last week that based on my check ups I am still estimated for delivery around Dec 12. We are praying for that date... My Grandma's bday, the new Baylor Maternity Ward will be ready, and it gives us 2 more weeks to prepare. Although, we are mighty aware that this birth is up to God and Baby H. We will keep you posted as you keep us in your prayers.

Couples Shower!! Saturday, November 15th, we celebrated as a couple!!!

2008-11-30T20:09:00.000-08:00

Me w/ Hostess: Michelle, Valerie and Deanna (Her baby is due about 3 weeks after Baby H... yes play dates & we hope for lots of them w/ this precious family)

Tommy w/ Hosts: Brandon, Ken & Rob

Each set of utensils was wrapped w/ a charm "It's a Girl" or " It's a Boy" . I noticed that Tommy and I each grabbed the opposite w/o even paying attention... So I guess this means we are not leaning either way...Still waiting for the delivery room surprise!!

Yummy cake!! From my favorite cake lady Angie!! It was so good and so cute!

Happy Mom and Dad to be!!! Wow, I notice my face is pretty dang round and full these days...I guess it matches my belly!

Saturday, November 15th, we celebrated as a couple!!!

Our very generous and loving friends Rob & Michelle, Ken & Deanna, & Brandon & Valerie hosted several of our friends to celebrate Baby H and this sweet season. The shower was soooo much fun and I can't say THANK YOU big enough to our gracious hosts & hostess...seriously you guys really know how to throw a great party. The appetizers, drinks, yummy food, sweet cake, decorations, gift, your love & support...it was perfect!

I really enjoyed sharing the celebration w/ Tommy. A lot of the guests were friend from Fellowship Church that we met through our singles group and hometeams. Now most of us are married (met our spouse at FC) and into a new season of life. Other guest are precious friends that we have known for a long time. No matter the connection each guests is special to us and was fun to celebrate this blessing w them. Lots of laughter filled the Rickman home on this special night. We always enjoy being with these friends and have a great time.

With the exception of maybe 4 couples at the party we are waiting for the rest of the gang to start families so we can all enjoy this season together.. : )

THANK YOU all so much for loving on us and showering Baby H with so many wonderful gifts. Most of all your friendship, support and prayers is what we cherish the most. Now don't forget to keep inviting the new parents out to dinner, celebrations, vacations and much more. Of course it might take us a few months to get over the lack of sleep before we can join the party again..but don't count the Hatfields out!

We love Ya'll!!!

A few guests snuck out before I could get photos: Kenny & Libby, Catherine & Matt, Mr. & Ms. Rickman.

Us w/ Peggy & Larry..NEWLY WEDS!!

Uncle Adam, Lauren & TK. We always have a blast w/ this couple! Thanks for the Diaper Dude bag!!

Tammy & Chris... Newly Weds too! Super fun and adventurous couple. We are looking forward to future scuba trips w them!

Gana, Hatty, Our Friend Mik (His Fiance Kristi had to head out early...she is so sweet & we are ultra excited for them), Coco:

My Hero...

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..My Best Friend, My Handsome Husband, My Teammate, Your Dad!!

Today I am an estimated 38 weeks and 1 day into this precious pregnancy. So, with in the next 2 weeks we will be meeting this little bundle of joy that God has created. In recent days I have spent some time to reflect on memories from the past 9 months. The one constant memory...my husband caring for me each and every day w/o one complaint. On week 7 we made a trip to the emergency room. From that day on to week 23ish I was sick every day! Morning and Night throwing up and extreme nausea during the noon time. 3 times I passed out..scary!

Tommy was sure to be beside me each time I hung my head to be sick. He held back my hair, rubbed my back, wiped my face, and continued to flush. He would go to work late to be sure I was OK first. He did the dishes, laundry, cooking, shopping, let me pick the food...anything that would help me during those weeks. He just loved on me and took excellent care of me...like no other time in my life. When I hit week 24/25 the sickness started to disappear..YEAHHHH! For both of us.

But, still during the past few months Tommy always checks on me through out the day, cooks on the days I am tired, shops w/ me so I don't go alone, let me pick the meals for my cravings, bakes the best ever homemade chocolate cookies at 10:00pm because it sounds good to me right then, runs to the store late night for ice cream, sorbet, lemonade...you name it he takes care of it!! I do my very best to tell him THANK YOU every time he does something nice or helps me out. Your caring heart and hard work does not go unnoticed!

It is tough for me to ask for help, so this season has been quite the adjustment for me. But, I know that Tommy loves me and our baby and it is wise for me to not push myself.

Tommy, you are my hero! Thank you for taking care of me like no other. Thank you for loving me unconditionally, Thank you for telling me how beautiful I am every day, Thank you for taking our vows serious and to heart and for living them out every day. Thank you for making me laugh and for putting up w/ all the days I was super sick and could not do a dang thing, but get to the bathroom or lay in bed. Thank you for letting me keep Whataburger and Sonic in business w all my several times a week visits.

There are no words to tell you how much I love you, appreciate you, value our marriage and your friendship, respect you, and can't wait to start this new journey w/ you. You are my hero, my best friend, my handsome husband, my teammate, and about to become the best dad any child could pray for! I LOVE YOU THE MOST, YOUR SSW!!

Sweet Baby H, You have the best Dad in the world. One who already loves you unconditionally and would make many sacrifices for you. We look forward to meeting you. We have cherished this time that God has spent knitting you into a unique being. See you soon, precious one!
Love, Mom

What a Special Celebration!!

2008-11-13T14:02:00.000-08:00

Table Decorations

On Sunday my precious friends, Alison, Rosemary, and Melinda hosted a beautiful baby shower for Baby H! Rosemary hosted at her beautiful home and I do mean beautiful!! The table was decorated w/ flowers, antique dolls, cute pink & blue petit fours...oh so perfect and charming! Since we do not know the sex of the baby each guest was to take either a pink or blue napkin and petit four based on your guess...boy or girl! Boy won by 1 vote!!!We shall see!

I voted boy, but truly I have no idea!!

It turned out to be a small # of guests, but it was perfect! We had plenty of time to visit and laugh! We sat down to open gifts and I looked around the circle of women and realized just how much each person has meant to me and impacted my life in such a unique way! I was able to take a few minutes to share with a few of these special ladies just how important they are to me and how God used them in my life. It was a special moment and not with out tears.

I just did not take enough photos and I am so disappointed!

In attendance:

Hostess: Alison, Rosemary & Melinda. I love these ladies. What a blessing they are to me!

No photo.. : ( My Great Aunt Bev, Loving, devoted!

My Cousin Mitzi and her sweet twin daughters, Megan & Katherine..Love them ! Great mom!

My precious neighbor Joanie. So much fun! Creative, Loving! Chatting w/ Patty, Coco, & Joanie.

My friend Oksana.. we met at Fellowship Church a few years back. Heart for the Lord. Sweet!

My friend Cassandra, cerative, loving, so sweet, Great teacher

No Photo : ( My Mother in law, Johnnie "Coco". How did I get so lucky!!!?
Again, No photo Tommy's Grandma, "Gana". So sweet and Precious.
No Photo, Teresa, my boss's wife. Teresa is VERY creative. I would love to have just an ounce of her talent. Cooking, painting, decorating, drawing, gardening, stylish! I mean she is one hip and cool lady! So much fun to be around! Beautiful inside and out!

My precious Patty (7th & 8th grade science teacher.. I lived w/ her for a short time twice). Servant's heart! Fun! Great Mom, friend and teacher!

My terrific friend Tara.. I love her, so funny! We met at Brookhaven College during a 8 day backpacking trip at Big Bend. We laughed our heads off during this trip. It was either laugh or cry and boy oh boy, did we laugh even when we wanted to cry!! We need to spend more time together!!

Thank you ALL so much for being a special part of my life. For loving me "warts and all" as Tara likes to say : ) You have all loved me unconditionally and impacted my life in a way that only God could have planned.

You have already started spoiling this sweet child of mine. Now we are awaiting the arrival so you can shower this baby with hugs, love and kisses!

Forever Grateful,

Rhonda Sue

Congratulations!!

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Saturday Tommy's sweet friend Julia married her prince charming, Brian.

It was a beautiful wedding/reception. We are super excited for their new life together and wish them all the best! We are a little jealous...they are on a 16 day honeymoon in Africa (which is on the top of our travel wish list). We are looking forward to hearing all about this adventure and borrowing their itinerary in the future.

Here are a few fun photos from the wedding reception. Julia and Brian had a fun photo booth set up. What a great idea... you go home w/ photos and the bride/groom get copies too. Check it out at boothBooth.com for your next event. I am sure the pics got funnier as the night went on!

Thanks for being my handsome date...it was a great date night!

32 Week Photo & Dr. Visits

2008-10-20T20:48:00.000-07:00

We had a visit 2 weeks ago w/ Dr. Ehmer (another Dr in the practice w/ Dr H). Dr. Ehmer was great. So sweet, so funny, and quoting Psalm 139 to Tommy and I as he described this miracle and blessing from God. Good visit. Baby H's heart rate was at 138-140. Dr. E guessed baby boy, but said that probably means a girl! : )

Today we had a quick visit w/ Dr. H. My growth is right on target. Gained a few more pounds bringing me to about 26lbs total so far. Baby H's heart rate was 128. Dr. H said everything looks good and expects this to be a healthy delivery w/ no surprises. All indications that Baby H is growing and healthy! Just what we like to hear. Next visit is in 2 weeks w/ Dr. Heckman.

Wow, it is hard to believe that we are 8 weeks from the due date. Tommy and I are full of excitement to meet this little one.

Baby Shower

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Last Sunday 4 of my most precious girlfriends, Christi, Liz, Kelley, and Leslie hosted a very special baby shower. Thank you LIZ for opening your beautiful home for another great party. The afternoon was full of so much laughter! The room was full of wonderful friends that span a lifetime, so many different seasons of my life were represented in different faces and friendships that I cherish. There are no words to express how much I enjoyed celebrating this new season of life w/ these girls. Baby H was showered w/ lots of great essentials: onsies, mittens, caps, toys, meds, baths time necessities, diapers, car seat base, books, infant seat, exersaucer, the BOB stroller!! Thank you for all the wonderful gifts!

Leslie's crafty work. I love the diaper cake. The flowers are still surviving at my house.

The Bunny cake. Christi was sneaky and had Tommy email her a photo of the baby's bedding so Angie ( My favorite cake lady) could create this cute cake and might I add, yummy!! Angie makes the BEST CAKES! I use her for EVERY occasion. This was a sweet surprise!

My Precious Hostesses : Leslie (I adore her. Fast Friends. Great Friend for Life) Kelley Ann (My Soul Sister), Christi (BFF), & Liz (I love hanging out w/ Liz. Very talented. Great Conversations, Huge Heart, Great Friend for life, Servants Heart)

My special helper, Chloe. She was so excited to help open gifts for her baby cousin. Thank you Chloe bug.

Monica.. the WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER.. of the fun game we played during the shower. We were not allowed to say "Baby". If you got caught saying baby then someone could steal your clothes pin. I was doing pretty good and had racked up 4 pins, then Sneaky Monica waited for her moment, caught me off guard, and got me to say baby. As you can see, I am not the only one she got... She was on her A game.

Family: Coco, Chloe, Joy

WMHS: Nikki, Christi, Robin & Melba (I have known Robin since elementary school & melba since Jr. High) Robin lived the next street over from me growing up and we were best friends.. we hung out every day growing up. Melba was one of my best friends from Jr high on and remains a very precious friend to me. I met Christi & Nikki our freshman year in high school. Christi and I became BFF after graduation and I could not ask for a more loving friend/sister.

Lacey (Kelley's sister and my friend), Kelley Ann (my soul sister), Monica (Melba's sister and my friend) and Melba. I love being w/ Monica & Melba because I always laugh so hard. Ya know the true from the gut laughs. These girls are special. Kelley, Monica and Melba are my go to moms for new parent advice. They rock!!!

Brenda Kay. My beautiful, talented friend. BK is the friend that keeps me on my toes. She is the one that God placed in my life to sharpen me just by watching her live her life. I am blessed that all my girlfriends sharpen me, but there is an extra something special that I get from BK.

Cayce.. Just about the cutest thing. Ms. Cayce is ever so sassy and stylish. So much fun to be around. We need to do some double dating w/ our husbands.

Heather. Huge heart. Sweet friend. Shout out to her mad skills @ Softball. Heather was invited to play in the softball world series this year. Can't wait to hear all about it. I miss flag football days!

Can you say Hello Beautiful! Jennifer is beautiful, her smile, the sparkle in her eyes can only be matched by the sparkle she adds to the party. Always laughing, always loving life, always fun to be around. And a BIG CONGRATULATIONS... JEN just got engaged! Jason is one Lucky guy, but I know he has to be special to win Jen's heart. We are so excited for JMO.

Brittney... another great friend! How did I get so lucky w/ all these beautiful friends... Inside and Out. Really!!! Britt has such a servants heart and is a joy to be around.

Most of us girls met at Fellowship Church. We had the best singles group!!! These girls made that season of life so much fun!!

Johnny. AKA: Bubba or HRH. LOVE Johnny!! As I have said before Bubba is a great friend and one that makes me laugh all the time. Smart & witty. I have known Johnny since my high school days. One of the family. And he is already spoiling baby H.

WHAT A FUN DAY!! I felt so loved and know that Baby H will have the best "aunts" and "uncle bubba" to love and pray for him/her. Thank Ya'll SOOOO much for celebrating w/ me and helping me get prepared for the baby.

A Winning Weekend

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Friday night Tommy and I headed out for some Friday Night Lights! We went to see Tommy's Plano Wildcats beat Wylie's Pirates. Good Game! Fun night!

Saturday Tommy's College team University of Arizona got a Win. Woo Hooo...this makes everyone in our house happy!!

Sunday morning before the sun came up, Tommy headed out for his Triathlon. I am so proud of him! He got another Olympic distance triathlon under his best and did GREAT!!! 1 mile swim, 25 mile bike and 10k run. I love going out and cheering him on. I wonder if he knows that I get emotional at every race and every transition of the race. I do! I tear up as I wait to see him approach the transition area... i am there praying for the wind at his back, strength in his legs, good rhythm and breathing, safe conditions. I love to yell his name as I see him and cheer him on during the transition & to the finish line. I am proud of you, Tommy!! You had a great race!!!

Tommy at the start of the run after the mile swim and 25 mile bike ride!! Looking good!

Tommy and Rob after the race. Way to go guys!!

Tommy, Rhonda & Baby H. Just think, next year there will be a baby in the stroller cheering on Dad at the finish line : )

Right after the race we came home to change clothes/shower and head off to the cowboy game. This was a special treat because Coco & Hatty invited us to sit in a box w/ their dear friends Dale & Sherry. I loved the time at the game visiting w/ Coco & Sherry, watching Tommy and his Dad talk football, cheering on the cowboys to another victory, and meeting a few new people. Thank you Dale & Sherry for including us...we had a great time!! Can I just say they are the nicest people... kind hearts, generous spirits, and fun personalities. Their daughter is currently working on her music career...She is beautiful and very talented (we got to hear 2 of her demo songs..wow). We will keep Channing in our prayers as God has his hand on her career and success in the music industry.

What a great, winning weekend! I enjoyed every moment of it!! All special memories!!

Nursery Sneak Peak

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A LITTLE SNEAK PEAK... because the photos are not that great!!

Since we still have Operation Sell Townhouse in progress, we have not set up the nursery. But, I have some of the items waiting in the wings to be moved in and set up. I am still on a mission for a dresser/changing table and all wall decor will come after Baby H. Here is a sneak peak.. I am excited to see the final results and start setting up the room in a few weeks.

The chair after reupholstery. I am already so excited about the precious bonding and rocking that will take place in this chair.

Swatch of the Baby bedding:

Silk Bumper w/ Taupe/Cream Bunny (top of bumper will have two rows of gingham ruffles)

Taupe& Cream Gingham Ruffled skirt

Close up of bunny on the bumper. Terrible photo, but trust me the bunny is really sweet and classic.

Baby Bed..I LOVE IT!!! Joy (my sister in law) had this bed made for her nursery. I think it is beautiful and I am so gratefeul that we get to use it now.

The walls in the guest room (soon to be nursery) are already a earth tone taupe, so no need to paint.

There is the exclusive sneak peak. In a few weeks if the town house shows no signs w/ the possibility of having new owners then I'll begin to prepare the room for baby H. Of course we are continuing to pray for God's will and direction. We love the townhouse and have plenty of room for baby. Where ever God places us I am excited to be with my family.

Catching up

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The last few weeks have passed by so quickly. Here is a run down of the fun things we have been able to do.

Labor Day week ~ Cook out/pool party w/ Friends. Leslie/John, Christi/Will, Erin and the cutie Sofi. Some how the only photo we managed to take was of Christi and Sofi. I really pray that Tommy and I are blessed w a child w/ a personality like Sofi. I just adore her. She had the attention of everyone around and loved it!! Fun & relaxing day.
We completed 12 hours of Prepared Childbirth classes. I must admit that I had a poor attitude about this after the first night of 3 hours chatting about birthing and technical terms that overwhelmed me. Our 2nd class was a Q&A w/ Dr. Harris and a tour of a Baylor birthing room. Again, a lot of information to soak in and wrap my head around. We did learn that the maternity ward is under serious construction/remodel until Dec. For now your over night room is pretty small, but the new rooms & nursery are suppose to be pretty nice and roomy... it would be nice for the construction to complete on time or early for our stay w/ Baby H in December.
3rd class was more class room time.. .breathing techniques, massages, question and answer and the famous birthing video... Wowzers.. did I need to see that?!! 4th and final class was pretty good. By this time I felt a lot more prepared and educated, less nervous about the birth and delivery. So I am please that Tommy and I hung in there for 3 Thursday nights and 1 Monday night full of information. I am sure Tommy learned more about female "stuff" that he every thought he needed to know. Thank you, Margie for all the information and making the class interactive.. we will be in touch w/ an update.

Our sweet friends Peggy & Larry married on September 6th. What a fun night.. to get dresses up and have a date night w/ my husband and friends and celebrate the gift of marriage. Congratulations Peggy & Larry. Peggy, you looked beautiful!!!!! We are looking forward to our dinner date in a few weeks w/ you and Larry.

Since I have been feeling good and healthy I have been playing catch up w/ all my precious friends. Lots of fun lunch & dinner dates. I am so blessed w/ wonderful, loyal, fun, loving friends.

Lunch w/ Johnny @ Cisco Grill- always fun. He just makes me laugh all the time.
( I need to upload photo w/ Johnny)

Dinner w/ Brenda @ Macaroni Grill- Oh, I love BK. The best conversations about life, love & laughter. I missed not being able to see her as often as I would like. BK is one busy girl, doing God's work and blessing the lives of so many by sharing her testimony and her gifts. Love you girl!! I am sharpened every time we are together.

Lunch w sweet Jamie @ Cafe Italia- It was fun to catch up w/ Jamie. We are in the same industry and actually had a few classes together at Jr. college. It has been fun to watch her blossom into a beautiful woman and wife. She married another friend of mine, Greg, and I just love hearing about their adventures...they enjoy traveling like Tommy and I. Maybe we will plan a trip together someday. Thank you, Jamie for treating me to lunch.
Dinner w/ Teresa @The Porch- Again, another precious friendship. T and I always share family stories, woes, and frustrations.... we always laugh about it, share advice, and keep on going. I am proud of T she just bought her first home.

T w/ Our friend RR:

Dinner w/ Stacy @ Peggy Sue's BBQ- Laughing, eating, chatting about church, relationships, and catching up. Stacy has one of the best contagious laughs. Love her.
(Need to upload new photo w/ Stacy)

Lunch @ Cafe Italia w/ Melinda & Alison to celebrate Mel's bday. The 3 of us always have a great time, but celebrating Mel is very special to us. Here is to many HEALTHY years full of LOVE, FUN, and LAUGHTER. You are special to us Melinda. P.S. Thanks for loving Cafe Italia as much as I do : )

Melinda & her husband Cory:
Lunch w/ Stephanie @ Celebration- It has been WAYYYYYY to long since my last visit w/ Stephanie. There are no words to describe how much I love, respect, and cherish Stephanie. God blessed me with this wonderful friendship and motherly love. Stephanie is a good friend, great mother & wife, christian ... who I know God placed in my life to teach me along my road. I treasure you!!

(Need to upload photo w/ stephanie)

Breakfast Double Date w/Brandon & Kalee @ Original Pancake House- So much fun to catch up w/ B&K. I am so proud of them. They have started their own business, following B's passion for RV's....yes super large luxury motor homes. B loves them.. always has always will. So he followed his passion and started his own business buying and selling. I am proud of your teamwork and leap of faith. We pray that God continues to bless you, your family, and business.

I have had so much fun catching up w/ my friends and eating YUMMY food. There were a few other bday dinners and celebrations here and there but I will save it for another long post.

Thank you God for all these friendships. Each person has a special place in my heart and brought so much joy through the years. I am looking forward to baby h meeting them and their families over the years to come. My prayer tonight is that you meet everyone of these friends right where they need you. That you teach me to be a great friend and sister in Christ to them.
Thank you for giving me these special people to do life with. I am blessed.

NOTE: I need to remember to take photos w/ friends at the actual events... no excuse because I typically always have my camera w/ me.

Weeks 25-28

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Baby H,

Hard to believe that it has been a few weeks since I recorded all your growth and activity. I have been feeling great (until this week) and staying busy socializing w/ friends for lunch and dinner dates, date night w/ dad, and staying pretty active running errands (all the things I missed during the few months of all day sickness).

You are moving and kicking a lot. And of course Dad & I love every minute of feeling your movement and wondering what you are doing inside my tummy.

Week 25 Your weight is about 1 1/2 lbs. Crown to rump length is about 8 1/2 inches.

Week 26 Your weight is about 2 lbs. Crown to rump length is about 9 1/4 inches and you are starting to put on weight.

Week 27 ~ This week begins the 3rd trimester. Your weight is approx a little more than 2 lbs. Your crown to rump length is estimated 9 2/3 inches & your total length is about 15 1/4 inches. WOW.... you are growing and so am I : ) Around this time you begin to open & close your eyes while still inside my uterus. Your movements are more frequent and some times pretty hard. When you kick i can see my tummy pop up.

Week 28 Your weight is nearly 2 1/2 lbs. Crown to rump length is close to 10 inches. Your total length around 15 3/4 inches. Your eyebrows and eye lashes are present. The hair on your head is growing longer.. I would love for you to be born w/ a lot of brown hair, but we would love your little bald head too.

On Monday we had a check up. Dr. Harris said our growth was looking good. I only gained 3lbs this past month. I passed the glucose screening...the glucose fruit cocktail drink wasn't so bad. But, I am thankful to not have to sit through a 3 hour test. Your heartbeat was 140. Our next visit is in 2 weeks.... wow, a reality check that we are getting so much closer to meeting you. Only 12 weeks till due date.

We love you Baby H!!! Keep growing strong and healthy.
Love, Mom & Dad

24 Week Check Up & Baby Bump

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Hey Baby H,

One week ago we visited Dr. Harris for our 24 week check up. Your heart rate was 134 and sounded great. I gained 6 more pounds making the total so far 21lbs (I think I should be around 15lbs right now and only 26-30lbs for the whole pregnancy. I am not too concerned about the numbers as long as we are both healthy)...wowzers!! Dr. H is not concerned about the last 2 spurts in weight gain, but on alert. So, we have to lay off the yummy french fries, burgers, and late night Sonic treats...they are still allowed, but in moderation. Next visit in 4 weeks we take the Gestational Diabetes test. I hear the fruit punch/glucose cocktail that I need to drink about 45 minutes prior to the blood test doesn't taste so bad.. I am banking on that. We are also praying that we are free and clear of gestational diabetes.... for your sake and mine. Over all it was a quick and pain free visit.

Week 23....Your weight is almost 1 lb. Your crown to rump length is approx. 8 inches. You are about the size of a small doll.

Week 24.... Your weight is about 1 1/4 lbs. Your crown to rump length is approx. 8 1/2 inches. This week while I was relaxing and reading a book I could feel you bouncing a lot and noticed my belly "bopping" up and down, you had the hick-ups and I could feel it. You still like to kick and move a lot in the late evening when I am first settling down for night in bed. Some days you have been very active even during the day. I sure do love to feel you move no matter what time day or night.

I know that you are getting bigger and bigger w/ each week and I hope you already feel how much we all love you. Your Coco says that you are going to feel super loved because every time she sees me I am always touching and rubbing my sweet, growing belly, just so you know I am already loving on you. She is right!!! I love rubbing my belly knowing you are inside.

WEEK 24 BABY BUMP

Mommy and Daddy love you, Baby H. We pray for your health day and night. We are excited to see your precious face in December. Till then, stay comfy and keep growing big and strong. In the next few weeks we are doing a lot to prepare for you, prepared childbirth classes, reading, praying, celebrating, getting all the items needed for your room, & meeting w/ a few pediatricians to find the right one for you to care for you (and answer all of mommy's questions/concerns through out the next several years). This week we hope to really start considering the perfect name for you. So, far lots of ideas, but I am waiting for God to lay the right names on our hearts... we can make a short list and when we see your face we will know what name God had planned for you. Will you carry on a tradition and be T. E. H. IV or will your initials be something completely new to our family. We shall wait and see. What ever names make the short list, we pray for a good strong name of character that fits you.

Good night sweet baby, You are covered in love and prayers,

Mommy and Daddy

22 Weeks Baby Bump

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Baby H,
22 weeks, Look at how much you have grown! The past few months have gone by so fast!! We know the next few months will hold lots of excitement and anticipation as we prepare for your arrival.

Week 7 You had a growth spurt... crown to rump length is 0.16 to 0.2o inch. By the end of the week you will double in size, to about 1/2 inch. You are about the size of a BB pellet. This is the week Mom got really sick. 7 weeks and 1 day, we got to see your heat beat during the visit to the ER. Your brain is growing and developing. Your heart has divided into right and left chambers.

Week 8 crown to rump length is about 1/2 to 3/4 inch. You are about the size of a lima bean. Your arms are longer and bend at the elbows.

Week 9 crown to rump length is 1 to 1 1/4 inches. You are about the size of a medium olive. All week we called you "Olive". Your toes are formed and your feet are recognizable.

Week 10 crown to rump length is 1 1/4 to 1 3/4 inches. You are about the size of a small plum.

Week 11 crown to rump length is 1 1/2 to 2 1/2 inches. Your weight is about 0.3 ounces and you are about the size of small lime. Your finger nails are appearing.

Week 12 crown to rump length is almost 2 1/2 inches. Your weight is between 1/3 and 1/2 ounce. You are rapidly growing. And Mom is still feeling sick w/ "morning, noon, and night sickness", but you are healthy and that is what is important.

Week 13 crown to rump length is 2 1/2 to 3 inches. Your weight is between 1/2 and 3/4 ounce. You are about the size of a peach.

Week 14 crown to rump length is 3 1/4 to 4 inches. Your weight is almost 1 ounce. You are about the size of my fist.

Week 15 crown to rump length is 4 to 4 1/4 inches. Your weight is about 1 3/4 ounces. You are close to the size of a softball. You could be sucking your thumb right about now.

Week 16 crown to rump length is 4 1/3 to 4 2/3 inches. Your weight is about 2 3/4 ounces. Fine hair covers your body and head. Your fingernails are well formed. You can move your arms and legs.

Week 17 crown to rump length is 4 1/2 to 4 3/4 inches. Your weights is now about 3 1/3 ounces. This week you are about the size of my hand spread open. You are beginning to accumulate a little weight. I felt you move a little this week. It makes Mom's heart so happy to feel the flutter of you moving.

Week 18 crown to rump length is 5 to 5 1/2 inches. Your weight is bout 5 1/2 ounces. You look like a perfectly formed baby.

Week 19 crown to rump length is 5 1/4 to 6 inches. Your weight is about 7 ounces. You are continuing to develop into a healthy little baby.

Week 20 crown to rump length is 5 2/3 to 6 1/2 inches. Your weight is about 9 ounces. Wow, we are at the half way point to full term.

Week 21 crown to rump length is about 7 1/4 inches. Your weight is about 10 1/2 ounces. You are about the size of a large banana. Your organ systems are maturing. You are able to swallow. Mom is feeling better this week.

Week 22 crown to rump length is about 7 1/2 inches. Your weight is about 12 1/4 ounces. Your eyelids and eyebrows are well developed. Your organs are becoming specialized in their particular functions. Mom has been feeling great all week. We did a little shopping to find things for your 1st room. It has been tough to pick out just the right decor, but the best part is that as long a you are here and healthy the decor is just fun not necessary.

Finally we took a baby bump photo

Week 22:

July Bday....

2008-08-14T16:46:00.000-07:00

I knew I would forget some one's July bday when I posted. And I did!! How could I forget Dylan's 9th bday?!! After all he is one of the coolest kids I know! I adore Dylan and his little sis Sofi. They both have the best personalities. So sweet, so smart, so dang cute, so clever, Neither shy!! I love them!! They are the niece and nephew of my BFF. They are like family to me!!

Dylan celebrated in a super cool way w/ a family Rockband Party. Dylan loves music and is taking guitar lessons, so Rockband is right up his alley. The whole family got in on the fun. Happy Birthday Dylan!! Rhonda Sue and Tommy think you are one cool kid and we hope Baby H is as cool and smart as you. Thanks for letting us celebrate w/ you.

Christi & Dylan Jammin

Miss. Cutie Sofi.. I LOVE this girl. If Baby H is a girl I hope she has the same sweet personality as Sofi and my niece Chloe.

Christi giving me lessons. I was so tense trying to play the drums. I have No rhythm.. it is sad!!

Lead Singer Erin, Rockin out! (Dylan and Sofi's mom) Now you know where the kids get their good looks.

20 Week Check Up & Sonogram

2008-07-29T16:57:00.000-07:00

Baby H,
For weeks we have been watching the calendar for July 28, our scheduled sonogram. Why? Oh, because we get a look inside your current world and see all those beautiful healthy features. The doctor said you look great!! You do..you look perfect! All organs look healthy and are functioning, sweet music to our ears. Your weight is right on target 9 oz. Your heartbeat was 132 at the time of the sono..you were just hanging out, reaching for your toes. Daddy wonders if you have long toes & big feet like your mom. You have a cute little button nose and beautiful features. I love that your sonogram profile already gives us a vision of what you look like. Keep up the good work, baby. Keep growing and stay healthy.
Right now I can always count on you moving around and stretching about 4/5 in the afternoon and again at night around 10/1030 at night. I love feeling you move, kick, stretch. Dad has been able to put his hand on my tummy to feel you a few times.... he loves it too, but sometimes he misses the chance because you are too quick. We really like feeling you wiggle around..it is a little gift to us.
Soon I will start to pick out all the things needed for your room at home w/ us. We are exciting to see you in December. New due date is Dec 10. Your GG, is OK w/ you missing her birthday date, Dec 12, but i know she would think it is a BIG DEAL if you did share her special day. Either way you are already extra special to her. Your cousin Chloe loved looking at your first photos and both her and Colton are excited to meet you. We are all so excited!! Your Coco, Hatty & Gana, your Aunts and Uncles, GG, Grandma...all of us!
Baby, you are covered in prayers.
We love you,
Mom and Dad

Celebrating our vows "In sickness & in health"

2008-07-29T16:10:00.001-07:00

Engagement Feb 2006

July 22, Tommy and I celebrated 2 fantastic years of marriage. We have had so much fun in these 2 years. Lots of traveling and I do means lots!!! We had a dream vacation planned by Tommy last November. Seriously, we feel so blessed w/ our health, family, friends, and adventures.
This anniversary we decided to head to Denver for a few days. Tommy has always wanted to take me to the Red Rocks in Denver for a concert. He claims that it is the BEST place to hear a concert. So, there happened to be a concert on our anniversary, The Police (Sting). No we are not Police groupies, but we like them well enough to hear them at the Red Rocks. Then we planned on meeting up w/ friends back in South Padre, Texas mid week for a little beach action.

Nothing went as planned.
For starters Hurricane Dolly was predicted to hit Padre on Wed..right when we were due to arrive. So, we nixed that plan and looked for another destination to finish out our week.

Monday, July 21. Headed to Denver (after a not so sick free weekend for me)
I was feeling decent when the trip started. The flight was OK, a little too hot and feeling queasy on the flight, but not too bad. But, we did cancel our dinner reservations in Denver and headed a little more low key dinner on the way to the hotel.

Tuesday, July 22. Happy Anniversary!! I slept in late. We headed out to a local Pizza buffet for some yummy food. About 4 minutes after sitting down at the restaurant I started to feel sick, really hot, queasy, heart pounding. I take about 3 bites of food and decide we gotta go before I pass out. Poor Tommy was so hungry and trying to eat so fast. We paid and headed back to the hotel w/ the a/c full blast in the car. Tommy got me settled in the room, a/c on 65, ice rag on my neck, and then he headed to the store for snacks, Gatorade, bottle water, and food for me. Our goal was for me to rest up because we had the concert in a few hours. About 1 hour 1/2 before the concert I tossed my "cookies". Oh, it was horrible!!!! We decided to try and sell the concert tickets because the heat at the out door concert probably was not the best place for me. UGGHHH! We were so disappointed. But, luckily the tickets sold. So, we ordered room service, discussed our alternative South Padre plans (thanks Hurricane Dolly), rented a $14.99 movie via the hotel. Fun Stuff!!! We love you baby H! I felt so bad that our whole reason for the Denver trip was to go to the Red Rocks and here I was sick as could be in a hotel room. I was hoping for a fun date night w/ my husband. Tommy was such a trooper! He reminded me that as bad as I felt we were still celebrating a blessing w/ this baby. He is so right!! We are one healthy little family, just morning, noon, and night sickness and this will pass. Thank you honey, for celebrating in sickness and in health, in good times and bad. Sorry it was not what we had planned, but we were together and as always made the very best of the day.

Wednesday, July 23. In bed all day. Up long enough to shower and pack bags. Headed to the airport just in time to go home. We canceled the idea of heading to a beach location for the rest of the week since I still was feeling pretty bad. At this point I need our bed!!! Get to the airport for a 2 hour delay. YEAH!!! Flight home was good. And Thank Goodness for great friends that pick you up at 1130 pm on a weeknight. Love you Leslie, you were right it was much better than a cab. Welcome to a dead car battery..no problem easy fix.

Happy 2nd Anniversary, Tommy!! I love you w/ all my heart and queasy tummy. You are so giving, loving, thoughful.... thank you for taking the care of me and baby h...no one could do it better than you. I am sure next year will be full of surprises too.

OH, We did not take one stinkin' photo of the trip. All we would get capture would be: hotel room, airport, room service, Bennigans, rental car.

Wedding Day July 22, 2006

1 Year Anniversary July 22, 2007, Telluride, CO

2nd Anniversary July 22 2008, Denver, CO..

NO PHOTO.. HOTEL ROOM, MORNING SICKNESS.. NEED I SAY MORE!!!

Helping Hands

2008-07-29T15:46:00.000-07:00

Sunday a team of girlfriends w/ helping hands came over to help me pack, organize, and decorate our townhouse, all in the name of preparing for OPERATION SELL TOWNHOUSE. Tommy and I are in the great townhouse that he owned before we married. We love it, but it is time to move on and make room for Baby H, for me to finally see all the things I have had packed the past 2 years, and decorate a new home. For a few months Tommy and I have planned on getting the townhouse ready, but it has taken the back burner since I have been sick. So, my sweet girlfriends came over Sunday ready to work! THANK YOU!!!!! All the packing, organizing, and decorating will make all the difference in the OPERATION SELL TOWNHOUSE. Just a few more projects for the handyman and we are set. Then the rest will be up to the Lord providing the right buyer and the right new home for us (PLEASE KEEP THAT IN YOUR PRAYERS).
Alison, Melinda, Leslie, Christi, Cassandra, and Scott, THANK YOU for all your help.
Baby H has the best loving "aunties" and Uncle.

One of my favorite women, Rosemary (Alison's mom), also prepared a home cooked meal for Tommy and I. Rosemary was so sweet to surprise us w/the delivery of this yummy meal. Anything Rosemary cooks is a treat, but this was extra special because we really needed a home cooked meal since we have been headed for take out a lot lately. Thank you Rose, for loving use like one of your own. I know Baby H is really lucky to have "Honey' love on him/her. Honey is one of a kind, special lady.

Cass & Scott

Leslie & me

Alison & Melinda

Me & Christi

Rosemary "Honey" & Me

July Celebrations #2

2008-07-18T19:34:00.000-07:00

Anniversaries!

"I am my lover's and my lover is mine; he browses among the lilies" Song of Songs 6:3

July is a special month to us.

July 22, 2006, we became Mr. & Mrs, Thomas E. Hatfield the IV. Our marriage has been a wonderful blessing and better than either of us ever could have imagined. I will have a special post dedicated to our cotton anniversary.

This anniversary post is for 4 our friends Brandon & Valerie (celebrating 1 year) and Kenny & Libby (celebrating a few years).

Happy Anniversary and wishing you many many many more. May God continue to bless your marriage and your precious families.

Us w/ Alison & Robert (June Anniversary), & Val & Brandon

Val & Brandon on the dance floor

Val & Brandon 7-21-07

Telluride, CO

I need to upload photos of Kenny & Libby to the computer.

July Celebrations #1 Birthdays & Good News

2008-07-18T17:14:00.000-07:00

Good News!!!!

I am finally feeling good! Yeahh! No running to the bathroom, no stopping the car to pull over, no nausea, no seabands! I mean I feel good and it feels good to feel good after 11 weeks of morning, noon, and night sickness. I did start a new med last week, so it is either my miracle drug or I just finally turned the corner. Either way I feel good. Praise the Lord!!!

"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."

Psalm 139 13-14

July is packed full of birthday celebrations for some of my loved ones.

My cousin Richard, My nephew Colton, My dear friend Melba (we met in 7th grade) , My Mom, My Dad, My fun friend Stacy (fun because I always have the best laughs w/ her), "HRH" Johnny, My 1/2 brother Bill. Whew.. I hope I am not leaving anyone out I am sure there are some distant cousins I am missing (my grandma would be able to tell me, she knows everyone's b-day).

Happy Birthday!! I love each of you and cherish you all. Each one of you is special to me and I am so glad that God gave us a extra special day to celebrate your birth.

Mom & Dad. Dad passed away 2 years ago.

Happy Birthday Mom! I pray this year God touches your life in a way that is forever changing.

Happy Birthday Dad! What a celebration you get to have everyday!

Melba. Tommy & I had dinner last week w/ Melba, her husband, and 2 sisters, Monica & Laurie. They all looked so beautiful and we had a great time. We laughed A LOT!!!

My cousin Richard. We spent most of our younger years joined at the hip hanging w/ Grandma every weekend. Boy oh boy did we have some fun times playing barbies, GI Joe, dress up, and going to church. I am older by a few years so Richard always gave in to what I wanted to play.

My Nephew Colton. I love Colton. He loves to build, play w/ his younger sister, dive off the big diving board @ the UP pool, play w/ Uncle Tom, LOVES anything sweet and loves most anything a typical 5 year old boy does. Colton is a cutie and I love to hear him and Chloe call me Aunt Rhonda...it melts my heart. Colton is going to be a good big cousin to Baby Hatfield.

Stacy is the cute blonde!!

Liz, Me & my too fake tan (part of my 70's look ; ) ), Stacy, & Jennifer (JoMo). Celebrating Swedeapalooza: Swede's 30th. 1976 Theme!!

I need to upload photos of Bill & Johnny to my computer, then I will update the July birthday post w/ their photos.

Happy Independence Day

2008-07-05T14:19:00.000-07:00

I love the celebration that takes place July 4th. Cookouts, pool, sun, burgers, friends, family, fireworks, picnics, red, white & blue, homemade vanilla ice cream, fireflies, 3 day weekend & INDEPENDENCE!

I really do love celebrating my Independence & Freedom to:

Vote, love, marriage, friends, education, worship God. These are just my top favs!! My list could go on and on.

This 4th of July my celebration was a little more laid back. My nausea is still hanging around even in week 17. So, Tommy and I stayed close to home. Finally, around 5pm I got enough energy to head to the pool. The cool water was very refreshing and we were the only people there, so it was nice to have a little time to hang out w/ me feeling OK. After the pool we headed to hang out The Sander's Family (Joy, Todd, Colton & Chloe). It was a nice night out and we really enjoyed being w/ the kids, Joy, and Todd. The burgers by "Grill Master" Todd were yummy!! A few "fire poppers" (as Colton calls them). I love hanging out w/ my family and I can't wait for baby Hatfield to be here next 4th of July to celebrate w/ us.

Today, July 5th, I have been pretty sick. I am hoping to feel better soon and maybe head to the pool again tonight to cool off and relax. Tommy has been very supportive, but I am sure he is ready for his fun, energetic wife to come back and play.

Catch up #3 16 Week check up

2008-06-30T13:06:00.001-07:00

Friday we went to the 16 week check up w/ Dr. Harris. It was a quick visit! "How ya feeling?, Keep drinking lots of fluids, keep taking your vitamins, eat when you can, I am sorry you are still sooooo sick, I think you will be over the "hump" soon, call me if anything changes." It was a good visit!

We also got to hear baby Hatfield's healthy heartbeat. It was 140! Last visit it was 155. I could listen to that precious "swooshing" heartbeat all day long. I just love it!

Our next appointment is in 4 week. I will have a sonogram, yeahhh! We will get to see the baby. We look getting a quick look at our baby Hatfield, and since I have been so sick we have has a few chances for a sono. It is pure joy to see the heartbeat and the miracle that is growing inside of me. God's creation is amazing!! Please keep our next appointment in your prayers along w/ the health of baby Hatfield. At this 20 week appointment we could find out: Pink or Blue, but Tommy and I have decided to wait until the delivery. This decision has been tough for some of our family and friends that realllllly want to know now. But, we are excited w/ the decison to wait and so is Dr. Harris.

Catch Up# 2 Happy Happy Birthday

2008-06-30T12:53:00.000-07:00

Sunday, June 22, was my 33rd birthday! I know it is hard to believe since I look so dang young: ) I wish!

Since I have been so sick, I was not up for a celebration on the town! But my very best friend, Christi said that I had to celebrate, so the party came to me!!! Christi (AKA Jonesy), called on a few of my closest and dearest girlfriends to come over for a Pizza, Salad, Cupcake, & Gatorade party. OK, so I had Gatorade and they had wine!! It was great to hang out w/ my girlfriends. I think it really lifted my spirits! I was a little sickie poo when they first arrived, but all the girl talk was just what the doctor ordered, of course about 20 minutes before everyone left I was feeling pretty yuckie again. But, Hey it was fun while it lasted. Party hats and all!! It was a great time and I appreciate these precious friends. Each one has a special place in my heart and God has brought to my life at different seasons, but all will last a lifetime and I treasure each sister in Christ. Thank y'all so much for the party, your friendship, and the fun gifts. Baby Hatfield will have the best Aunts!!

Leslie, Me, Brenda, Liz (above photo)

Party hats and noise makers. These girls know how to throw a party:

Liz, Christi, Birthday girl, Stacey, Leslie, & Summer

Catching Up #1 HooDooVooDoo/Acupuncture

2008-06-30T12:22:00.000-07:00

My "morning" sickness is still here, but I am surviving and there is a lot to catch up on.

Lets start w/ HOODOOVOODOO! Acupuncture!! OK, so I don't really think it is hoodoovoodoo or else I would not have agreed to try it! After weeks of "morning"sickness I finally gave in to my sweet mother in law's suggestion of trying acupuncture. I was willing to try anything that was not harmful to the baby. I was a little nervous at my first visit, but as soon as I met Dr. Wang all my nerves subsided. Dr. Wang has the sweetest disposition, calming touch, and warm smile. I was in good hands, that and I never looked at the needles.

Dr. Wang placed needles in the back my head, forehead, upper stomach, each wrist, and front of leg shin area. No pain..seriously I barely felt a thing. She then attached a few of the needles to an electrical pulse for about 30 minutes. I could feel the pulse, but again very little pain, maybe a little bee sting. Once this procedure was complete she put teeny tinny needles in each wrist for me to press when I felt nauseous ..really! That was a little uncomfortable for the next few days. The next few treatments were about the same, maybe a few more needles, maybe a little more of a "bee"sting, but no major pain. I did finally take a look at the long, but very slender needles. My suggestion just don't look at the needles and take a deep breath as the doctor puts them in.. you'll be fine!! On one occasion we switched my take home "wrist" needles for needles in my ear.. that did not feel any better!

I do think the acupuncture helped a little. I did not toss my cookies as much the weeks following treatment! After 4 treatments I decided to take a little break and head to CVS for $10.00 "Seabands" to fight the nausea. I have been sporting the little blue bands for a week and I must admit the nausea is minimum. I have still tossed my cookies, but at least I am not queasy 24/7.

So my new favorite accessory..CVS blue seaband. You too can have this hot new accessory for $10.95. They look like little sweatbands, so I keep telling Tommy that I can take him on the basketball court now..yeah right. Not even on my good day could I take him!

Below: Acupuncture/Acupressure needles. I wore these for a few days before Dr. Wang put them inside my ears. Sorry no photos of my ears.

Is being pregnant a good excuse?!!!

2008-06-24T09:58:00.001-07:00

.. for not blogging for a week?

Sorry folks, but this morning, noon, and night sickness has gotten the best of me lately. But, I will update by tonight! Acupuncture, 33rd birthday, great friends, etc.. Keep saying prayers that this sickness will subside soon, like today!!! I love you sweet baby, but mom would like for both of us to feel good, energized, and no more throwing up!

Father's Day Numero Uno

2008-06-17T12:22:00.000-07:00

Sunday we celebrated Tommy's First Father's Day. We started by attempting to make it to church, but baby Hatfield is still causing me a lot of morning, noon, and night sickness. So back to bed for an early morning nap I went. We headed to lunch at a local restaurant w/ family, but we had to make a fast exit thanks to baby Hatfield. I just could not cool off in the restaurant and was feeling pretty sick. Poor Tommy, his first Father's Day was spent caring for his wife. I am sure that both, Tommy and I, would do it all over again in exchange for the miracle that is growing inside of me. Now, we are just excited to see Baby Hatfield celebrating w/ us next year.

In between the naps and sickness I was able to work up a creative gift for Tommy. I think he really did love it. Here are the details:
Last November 2007, Tommy and I went on a 4 week trip around the word. .. literally!! Tommy spent months planning all the details to this once in a life time adventure. It was FABULOUS!!! Our 2007 Christmas card included little snapshots of several of the place we visited on the trip.
The gift: I framed the Christmas card w/ a note attached "THE ADVENTURES DON'T STOP HERE..."
The second gift was a little newborn "onesie" that I personalized w/ Tommy's alma mater (see photos) the note attached: "... THEY ARE JUST BEGINNING". I can't wait to see baby Hatfield wear the onesie.

I love this special day! It was a great chance to remind Tommy how much I love him and appreciate all he does and has been doing for our little family. To remind him that I notice his fruits of the spirit. His patience, love, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, joy, and goodness. I try to tell him every day that I love him.. more and more w each day that passes. Our new little family is a wonderful blessing and I look forward to this baby meeting his/her precious father.
HAPPY FATHER"S DAY, TOMMY. I love you!

Say Cheese!!

2008-06-12T10:44:00.000-07:00

Today I am under "house arrest" and working from home. I have had terrible morning, noon, and night sickness for about 7 weeks and counting. During this time I have also had 3 fainting spells... scary stuff! Yesterday was the latest fainting spell at Target check out line of all places... and no it wasn't because of my check out bill. I did go to the Labor and Delivery Observation for a few hours of tests. Everything looks good, including baby's precious heartbeat. So now I am at home resting and waiting for the doctor to call regarding a follow up. I am praying to get over this "morning sickness" ASAP and to be energized. My sweet husband has really been the best!! He has taken over all household chores and w/ a smile on his handsome face. I couldn't have asked for a more loving and caring husband. Please keep us in your prayers> that the sickness will subside, my energy will return, the pregnancy and baby will remain healthy.

I thought I would share the day I told Tommy about the baby:
"Say Cheese"

Tommy was out of town for the weekend for a Bachelor Party. Saturday morning I went to the grocery store to stock up on a few things and decided to buy a pregnancy test. I came home unpacked my goods, and had lunch. I had not planned on taking the test because I did not suspect that it was positive (or at least not yet). But, I decided "what the heck", "what if" ...well:
you know the results and 5 tests later.. only 4 are in the photo. I know, why 5 tests you ask. I had some crazy theory that the 1st 2 might be wrong and they were in the same box. The 3rd was defunk weird kinda negative result (My dear friend Leslie got it for me), so we went to the pharmacy and bought another 2 pack. I took one more and it was positive. I saved the last for Sunday morning as soon as i got up.. just to be sure i was really pregnant and not dreaming.
Can I just say that after the first positive test I dance around the bedroom, jump around then prayed. I also called my sweet sister in law, Joy, right after the first test to come over. I needed to be w/ someone for a few minutes and to be there when I took the second test.

Sunday, Tommy was getting dropped off at home while I was at church. I took the laptop and his car keys w/ me. I did not want him to see that I had searched all night long about "what to do when your pregnant" and I did not want him to leave to work out. I couldn't wait another minute to share the good news. When I got home he was in bed recovering from a long night! Obviously I was anxious for him to get up, shower, and hang out w/ me. After breakfast in bed, he took the longest shower ever, and the longest time to groom. Once he came down to read the morning paper I set up my camera and wanted to try out my new remote. Here is how it all went down:

R: Ok, babe I want to test my new camera remote. Look at the camera and say cheese. (FYI: I had already tested the thing out and got a few shots, see below)
T: Cheese
R: Crap it is a blank photo. (No joke all of the sudden it didn't work like 3 times, I am getting nervous and probably sweating at this point)
R: Lets try again, it is working, Say Cheese (click, flash from the camera)
T: Cheese
R: One more time, Say CHEESE.....(long pause)... RHONDA IS PREGNANT (click, flash)
T:Huhh?!!
R: Seriously (click, flash)
R:Really (click,flash x2 or 5 more times)
T: What is up w/ the camera (who could blame him .. it was flashing like the paparazzi)
R: Oh, ..I was just trying to be clever and get your surprise reaction on film!!

It worked!!! I gave him a few minutes or 20 to let it sink in, I read him the letter I wrote the night before to share all the crazy things I was thinking too, and then we prayed together.
A few hours later we shared our news w/ the rest of the Hatfield Family.

2008-06-10T14:05:00.000-07:00

My First Post!!!

I am going to give this a shot. I love to read other blogs... in some wonderful way these women and their blogs minister to me. I have my favorites that I love to check on daily and once I figure out how to create a "blog roll" ( i think that is what it's called) I will list them on my page.

So, I have been encouraged by a few friends to start a blog, but I just did not think I had anything good to write about or share w/ the blog world, that was until April 5th. On April 5th, 2008 I found out that my husband and I are expecting a wonderful blessing in December, our first child. All of a sudden, I think I have plenty to blog about! I love scrapbooks, photo albums, and preserving memories, but I have a few unfinished projects of such from 3 years ago, so I probably should not commit to starting a scrapbook for the baby until I complete my other projects. But, the great thing about blogging is that is takes less time, less supplies, zero money, and less mess and I can print a book of all my blogs and photos at the end of the end of the year... PERFECT SOLUTION!!!!

As I begin this blog about this wonderful season of life, I pray that God will guide my words. Let the adventures begin!